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ghouldilocks:

THE SLUTS UNITE OATH

I believe that sex represents more than just the creation of children.

I believe it is an enjoyable, healthy and a profound part of the human experience.

I also believe that the responsible use of birth control is an essential component of a mature, civilized society.

And if these beliefs make me a slut in some people’s eyes, then so be it.

I will stand united with my fellow sluts, now and always.

Damn right!

There’s nothing wrong with sex, people.

- Having sex every day.
- Saving sex for your wedding night.
- Never having sex.
- Having sex with different people.
- Having sex with one person.
- Having sex with a person of your same gender.
- Loving sex.
- Hating sex.
- Being loud.
- Being quiet.

The only thing wrong with sex?

When it’s not consensual.

Because that’s not sex. That’s rape.

(Source: strengthissexy)

Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls don’t have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls don’t, can’t, or shouldn’t. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they’ll begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they’re even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner’s pants. Despite the massive advances in women’s equality, young women’s sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but aren’t taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It’s still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex.

Dorian Solot, I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide.  (via wewantrevolutiongirlstylenow)

In my school masturbating meant you were a lesbian and being a lesbian was basically THE WORST THING YOU COULD BE. \o/ 

(via apiphile)

(Source: lipsredasroses)

definatalie's bits: Sex positivity and other lies on Tumblr

maggiemunkee:

youarenotyou:

madamethursday:

I remember my first encounters with the sex positivity/sex positive movement, especially through the internet. I remember loving the basic principle of the thing: “Sex is awesome! No one should be ashamed of their sexuality or wanting sex! Let’s bring it…

Sex-positivity is the belief that sex and sexiness are… okay. It’s the belief that people shouldn’t be judged by the sex they have. It’s the belief that consent matters and social norms do not. It’s the belief that porn and erotica are valid media of expression (not that the current porn industry is hunky-dory, cause it’s not) and that sex work ought to be just work (not that it currently is). It’s the belief that neither “slut” nor “prude” should be an insult. It’s the belief that every sexual and gender identity is valid.

The Pervocracy: Sex-Pozzie. (via sexisnottheenemy)

I adore Holly Pervocracy so very much. They are one of my true heroes.

How to Put Together Your Own Consent Workshop (PDF)

exvee:

The full title of this zine is “How to Put Together Your Own Participatory, Community-Specific, Radical Consent Workshop.” The zine offers a thorough blueprint for one kickass consent workshop. The zine was assembled by, and this workshop model was beta tested by, a Seattle University student group called Northwest Break the Silence. For more info on the group, check out their website: http://nwbreakthesilence.wordpress.com/

nothing2c:

queerasfuck:

Guess what today is?

Here’s wishing sex workers fairness, good treatment, health and happiness.

Seconded !

nothing2c:

queerasfuck:

Guess what today is?

Here’s wishing sex workers fairness, good treatment, health and happiness.

Seconded !

(Source: discoelitist)

Can we please stop with the nonsense that it’s not possible to be into kink AND a feminist ?   It is okay to like being tied up/spanked etc and/or enjoy doing that to others AND to hold the radical notion that women are people too.
Some people like sex, all different kinds of sex and that’s just fine, as is not being interested in sex at all.  Those who spend an inordinate amount of time and effort telling others they are doing sex ‘wrong’, or doing with the ‘wrong’ people - they are the ones to be avoided.  No one, not even some one who calls themselves ‘feminist’ has the right to tell me how to use my body.
Whose business is it what consenting adults do in their own time? NOT YOURS!

Can we please stop with the nonsense that it’s not possible to be into kink AND a feminist ?   It is okay to like being tied up/spanked etc and/or enjoy doing that to others AND to hold the radical notion that women are people too.

Some people like sex, all different kinds of sex and that’s just fine, as is not being interested in sex at all.  Those who spend an inordinate amount of time and effort telling others they are doing sex ‘wrong’, or doing with the ‘wrong’ people - they are the ones to be avoided.  No one, not even some one who calls themselves ‘feminist’ has the right to tell me how to use my body.

Whose business is it what consenting adults do in their own time? NOT YOURS!

(Source: littlegirlinwaiting)