foolish mistakes, but whatever, they are all mine.
Mostly-cis, fat ,middle aged, bisexual, disabled, white femme. My hobby is seeing how many years I can add to my collection before I die.

Posting will be random but may contain fat acceptance, wool, and cats, lagomorphs and corvids in no particular order. Posting may also be sporadic as I have ME/CFS and a bunch of other stuff that makes me tired and some times crabby.

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condommonologues:

"As a teen, I had not fully realized my sexuality and only had sex with (cis) guys. I was surrounded by sexual health messages that greatly encourage safety:
Understand birth control options, communicate with partners, get tested, use condoms.
But there was no enthusiasm for queer sexual safety. Saying, “Use gloves” or “Use a sex dam” is very different from “Use a condom”. None of my education went beyond the scope of heterosexual sex; specifically, penis-vagina penetration.”
Why this monologuer is thankful for her awkward first time having sex with another woman. Read monologue
Condom Day is not just about roll-on condoms.

condommonologues:

"As a teen, I had not fully realized my sexuality and only had sex with (cis) guys. I was surrounded by sexual health messages that greatly encourage safety:

Understand birth control options, communicate with partners, get tested, use condoms.

But there was no enthusiasm for queer sexual safety. Saying, “Use gloves” or “Use a sex dam” is very different from “Use a condom”. None of my education went beyond the scope of heterosexual sex; specifically, penis-vagina penetration.”

Why this monologuer is thankful for her awkward first time having sex with another woman. Read monologue

Condom Day is not just about roll-on condoms.

your-health-is-low:

disabled people can have sexualities and enjoy sex as much as any able-bodied person

seriously

(Source: glitteretgore)

Bidet, mate.: PSA

ladyaches:

If you are one of those people that cannot see how fucking problematic “consent is sexy” is, then unfollow me right now. You’re not welcome on this blog anymore.

And since I don’t have time to explain it to you, here are some links, educate yourself.

I think a lot of fat admirers only see fat oppression as not finding a man who will fuck you. Accordingly, this allows those fat admirers to consider themselves a walking, talking end of oppression. A self-perception they rather dislike having corrected.

Red3Blog (Yeah, quoting myself. In private conversation, but felt I just had to share)

(Source: red3blog)

shakethecobwebs:

FACT: Some dudes are attracted to fat women more than any other body type.

FACT: That doesn’t automatically make them special or nice or praise-worthy.

THIS ^^. Thank you!

oppressionisyucky:

mylittlebaneling:

disabledpeoplearesexy:

wetoucheyefeelarush:

I’ve noticed some disability blogs are following me :3 which is really nice so thank you, i’d appreciate it if you could reblog this photograph; who says a disabled girl can’t be sexy? ;)

Oh hell yes :)


sweet top, love the lace

oppressionisyucky:

mylittlebaneling:

disabledpeoplearesexy:

wetoucheyefeelarush:

I’ve noticed some disability blogs are following me :3 which is really nice so thank you, i’d appreciate it if you could reblog this photograph; who says a disabled girl can’t be sexy? ;)

Oh hell yes :)

sweet top, love the lace

ghouldilocks:

THE SLUTS UNITE OATH

I believe that sex represents more than just the creation of children.

I believe it is an enjoyable, healthy and a profound part of the human experience.

I also believe that the responsible use of birth control is an essential component of a mature, civilized society.

And if these beliefs make me a slut in some people’s eyes, then so be it.

I will stand united with my fellow sluts, now and always.

Damn right!

When I submit, I do it from a place of strength. I decide whether my partner is worthy of such a powerful and intimate gift, and I do not give my submission to anyone who does not both understand and appreciate the depths of what I am giving up for them. I value myself highly, and so I submit to people who realize that doing so does not make me less. I accept I am an intelligent, competent, submissive feminist – who sometimes finds her power by choosing to let it go.

karapassey:

Why yes someone did make me mad today. 
Don’t fetishize my body type. Don’t dictate how I should feel about myself and how I should present myself to society in order to be deemed fuckable.

karapassey:

Why yes someone did make me mad today. 

Don’t fetishize my body type. Don’t dictate how I should feel about myself and how I should present myself to society in order to be deemed fuckable.

There’s nothing wrong with sex, people.

- Having sex every day.
- Saving sex for your wedding night.
- Never having sex.
- Having sex with different people.
- Having sex with one person.
- Having sex with a person of your same gender.
- Loving sex.
- Hating sex.
- Being loud.
- Being quiet.

The only thing wrong with sex?

When it’s not consensual.

Because that’s not sex. That’s rape.

(Source: strengthissexy)

I am so sick and effing tired of people telling fat girls that our “confidence” is sexy. You wanna know what’s fucking sexy? MY ASS! Wanna know what else is sexy? MY THIGHS! How about this, MY FUCKING BELLY! It’s sexy that I can take your fist in 30 seconds. It’s sexy that you can hold handfuls of me at a time. It’s sexy that my skin raises up in welts that suit my roundness when you smack me.

People’s heads whip when I walk down the street, and it’s not my confidence that they’re thinking about fucking. It’s my body.
Don’t tell me that I’m hot because I’m comfortable in my skin. Don’t tell me that I’m hot because I have a pretty face. Don’t tell me that I’m hot because I’ve done so much work to love myself. It’s a cop-out.
Confidence is sexy.
But so is a nice rack.

—Ashley Aron (via askaguywholikesfatchicks)



Except for the fist thing, i am 100% with this. (i just can’t do that… gah!)  (via notquiteapinup)

Ditto - but no fisting allowed.

(via fayedaniels) Love this! I will take the fisting ;)

(Source: queerfathungry)