foolish mistakes, but whatever, they are all mine.
Mostly-cis, fat ,middle aged, bisexual, disabled, white femme. My hobby is seeing how many years I can add to my collection before I die.
Posting will be random but may contain fat acceptance, wool, and cats, lagomorphs and corvids in no particular order. Posting may also be sporadic as I have ME/CFS and a bunch of other stuff that makes me tired and some times crabby.
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I will not censor myself.
I will not shrink to make room for you.
I will not hide my anger for you.
I will not behave myself for you.
I will not put your needs in front of my own.
I will not bite my tongue about issues that matter to me.
I will not define myself by you.
I will not thank you for treating me with the respect I deserve.
I will not stay silent.
I will not beg for your approval or permission.
I will not smile for you.
I will not tailor my life to yours to make you feel wanted.
I will not set fire to myself to keep you warm.
Does this make you uncomfortable?
don’t be too clingy
don’t be such a ‘girl’
be a woman
but be hairless like a child
don’t wear skimpy outfits
don’t be such a ‘slut’
but take it off when i ask
don’t assert yourself
don’t be such a ‘bitch’
be nice to me
but don’t be a fucking doormat
don’t be ignorant
don’t be such a ‘bimbo’
but don’t argue your opinion with me
don’t wear make-up ever
don’t be so ‘insecure’
but don’t complain if i don’t like it