foolish mistakes, but whatever, they are all mine.
Mostly-cis, fat ,middle aged, bisexual, disabled, white femme. My hobby is seeing how many years I can add to my collection before I die.
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Confidence is not vanity.
Being confident in yourself and your appearance is not a bad thing, in fact it is a very good thing.
We live in a culture that encourages “modesty”, to be critical of oneself and ones appearance. Where loving who you are is perceived as a “flaw”. Where not criticising yourself is seen as being conceited.
I lived for the longest time hating myself and who I am. I refuse to do this now for others comfort.
Loving who you are, just as you are, is a wonderful thing. This does not mean you cannot or don’t want to change or improve, nor does it mean you are perfect.
I will continue to be confident in myself. If you think that is a problem, than maybe my self esteem is not the issue, maybe YOU are.
I think it is important for me to reblog this regularly.